How To Contact Your Ex After A Break Up
Sep 2nd, 2010 by beauty writer
If you want to get your ex back you will need to contact them to discuss the relationship and this isn’t always easy because it can feel very awkward. A lot of people get this wrong and end up scaring their ex away. You need to be subtle in your initial approach to them. First off it is better to give them space for a few weeks before you contact them.
This gives them time to clear their head and decide what they want. When the time comes to make contact with them a simple text message or email is enough. People often miss or don’t read emails so I think a text message would be better. Most people check their phone much more often that their emails and this is why a text message is better.
Keep the message simple, just ask them how they are. If they reply then great, just see how things go and then eventually ask them if they would like to meet up for a catch up chat. If they don’t answer then leave it for a few days and then send them another message. The reason you need to leave it a few days is because you will just look desperate if you send too many messages too soon.
Some people have a knee jerk reaction when they don’t get a response within the first hour and send a load more messages. If your ex comes back to their phone and finds one message from you it’s enough to tell them that you’re still interested. Lots of messages will tell them that you’re desperate.
If a week goes by and you still hear nothing then the best course of action would be to call your ex. This is your last shot at making contact with them. If you don’t get hold of them and they don’t call back then you should take the hint that they’re avoiding you and move on gracefully. Not every relationship can be saved and while it’s not a nice to go through it’s something that you will just have to learn to live with.
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